When a child struggles to produce even simple sounds, the path to speech begins long before words ever form. For children with intellectual disabilities, communication challenges are common – and the groundwork for spoken language often needs to be laid carefully, one muscle movement at a time. This is where pre-speech exercises come in. These structured activities target the lips, tongue, cheeks, jaw, and breath control – the very physical foundations that make speech possible. The good news for parents and caregivers is that many of these exercises can be woven into daily routines at home, turning ordinary moments into meaningful practice.
Table of Contents
- The role of a speech therapist
- Blowing exercises: building breath and muscle control
- Sucking exercises: control, strength, and drooling management
- Oral motor exercises: targeting specific speech muscles
- Jaw exercises (for chewing and foundational strength)
- Lip exercises (for sounds like b, m, and p)
- Cheek exercises (for sounds requiring air pressure)
- Tongue exercises (for palatal sounds like t, n, and r)
- Managing drooling through oral motor training
- Breathing and humming exercises: establishing nasal sounds
- Making home practice work
The role of a speech therapist
Before any home practice begins, the journey starts with a speech-language pathologist (SLP). According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA), comprehensive speech-language assessment addresses a child’s speech, language, cognitive-communication, and swallowing function – examining both strengths and areas of need. In practical terms, this means the therapist carefully evaluates how the child understands language, how they express themselves, how clearly they hear sounds, and how well their speech organs – including the lips, tongue, jaw, and cheeks – are functioning.
Based on this assessment, the therapist builds a personalized plan. No two children are alike: some need help with muscle strength, others with coordination, and many need a combination of both. Crucially, research shows that children’s outcomes improve when parents actively collaborate with speech pathologists – practising assigned exercises at home between sessions. Regular follow-ups with the therapist remain essential to monitor progress, adjust techniques, and introduce new challenges as the child develops.
Blowing exercises: building breath and muscle control
Blowing might seem like simple play, but it is one of the most important pre-speech skills a child can develop. Producing explosive sounds like “ta,” “pa,” or “ka” requires strong breath control and coordinated muscle movement. Blowing exercises strengthen lip muscles, improve breath control, and develop the sustained airflow needed for connected speech. Here are five activities that build these skills:
- Candle blowing: Hold a candle (or a drawn flame on paper for safety) a short distance from the child and encourage them to blow it out. Gradually increase the distance to build stronger airflow.
- Ping-pong ball race: Place a ping-pong ball on a smooth table. The child blows through a straw to push the ball from one end to the other. This builds directed, controlled airflow.
- Soap bubbles through a straw: Pour soapy water into a cup and let the child blow through a straw to create bubbles. This encourages sustained, gentle exhalation.
- Whistles: Blowing a whistle requires firm lip closure and controlled breath – great for building cheek and lip strength.
- Balloon blowing: Encouraging a child to inflate a balloon (with supervision) exercises the cheek muscles and builds significant respiratory effort.
Keep sessions short and celebratory. Even a few successful blows deserve enthusiastic praise.
Sucking exercises: control, strength, and drooling management
Sucking exercises teach children to consciously draw air inward and build muscle memory around the lips, cheeks, and tongue. These activities also play a useful role in helping manage drooling – a common challenge for children with intellectual disabilities – by strengthening the oral muscles needed to keep the mouth closed and control saliva. Oral motor exercises can help reduce drooling by strengthening the lip and cheek muscles and improving the ability to close the mouth fully.
- Straw drinking (Activities 6-7): Begin with a wide, short straw and a thick liquid like a milkshake or smoothie – these require less effort. As the child gains strength, gradually introduce narrower, longer straws and thinner liquids. Using wavy or curly straws can increase the muscular effort required, adding a gentle challenge.
- Lollipop sucking (Activity 8): Sugar-free lollipops or ice pops naturally encourage the sucking motion. The sustained effort builds muscle memory and endurance while the flavour keeps the child motivated.
- Paper pickup with a straw: Cut small pieces of lightweight paper. Show the child how to pick up a piece by pressing the straw against it and sucking, then move it to a bowl or container by releasing the suction or gently blowing. This activity is particularly valuable because it teaches the child to alternate between sucking and blowing – developing conscious control of airflow in both directions.
Oral motor exercises: targeting specific speech muscles
Oral motor exercises aim to improve the functioning of the mouth, jaw, lips, cheeks, and tongue so that the child can demonstrate the coordination needed for sound production and articulation. Different sounds rely on different muscle groups, so a comprehensive programme targets each area systematically.
Jaw exercises (for chewing and foundational strength)
A strong jaw is the base for almost all mouth movement. Providing foods that require sustained chewing – baby carrots, apple slices, or sugar-free gum – helps develop jaw strength and endurance. Chewing with the lips closed is a particularly useful technique, as it simultaneously builds jaw muscle and trains the child to maintain lip closure, which supports drooling control.
Lip exercises (for sounds like b, m, and p)
The lips must press together firmly to produce bilabial sounds such as /b/, /m/, and /p/. Exercises include pressing the lips tightly together and releasing repeatedly, making exaggerated “fish lips,” and playing games of puckering and smiling. Lip presses – where the child squeezes their lips tightly and then releases – help build the lip strength necessary for these sounds and also aid in preventing drooling. Making funny faces in front of a mirror turns this into an enjoyable activity that children are happy to repeat.
Cheek exercises (for sounds requiring air pressure)
Several speech sounds require the child to build up air pressure inside the mouth. Cheek exercises address this directly: the child fills their cheeks with air and holds it without letting any escape through the lips or nose, then moves the air from one cheek to the other. This puffing movement can be repeated 5 to 10 times as a structured exercise. A mirror helps the child see what they are doing and self-correct.
Tongue exercises (for palatal sounds like t, n, and r)
The tongue is perhaps the most active articulator in speech, and it needs targeted training. A range of exercises build tongue strength and mobility:
- Extending the tongue as far as possible and holding it steady for a few seconds builds general tongue strength.
- Touching the tongue tip to the roof of the mouth (the alveolar ridge, just behind the upper teeth) and holding it there is essential preparation for sounds like /t/ and /n/.
- Moving the tongue side to side – touching the left corner of the mouth, then the right – improves lateral coordination.
- Licking a spoon or a small dab of peanut butter placed on the roof of the mouth encourages upward tongue movement in an engaging, motivating way.
- Pushing the tongue against a spoon held in front of the mouth builds resistance strength.
Managing drooling through oral motor training
Several specific techniques within oral motor training address drooling directly. Chewing gum with lips closed trains the child to keep the mouth shut during jaw movement. Sucking liquid from a spoon (rather than a bowl) encourages controlled lip and tongue action around a utensil. Maintaining an upright head posture – sitting straight rather than with the chin dropped – is also important, as a forward-tilting head makes saliva pooling more likely. Intraoral approaches can help overcome drooling and improve chewing and biting in children with neuromuscular motor challenges.
Breathing and humming exercises: establishing nasal sounds
Before a child can produce nasal sounds like “ma” and “na,” they need to develop a correct breathing pattern – specifically, breathing through the nose rather than the mouth. The final group of pre-speech activities targets this directly.
- Controlled nasal exhalation: The child practises breathing in slowly through the nose and out through the nose, building awareness of nasal airflow. This can be made concrete by placing a small feather or tissue in front of the nose and watching it move with each exhalation.
- Humming like a bee: This is one of the most effective techniques for introducing nasal resonance. Humming naturally engages nasal resonance; starting with a simple “mmm” sound, then progressing to “ma” and “na” sounds helps children feel the vibration in the nose and face – making the abstract concept of nasal sound production concrete and perceptible.
- Musical humming: Humming along to a familiar tune brings an element of fun and helps the child sustain the nasal sound for longer periods. Parents can place a finger gently on the child’s nose so they can feel the vibration – a simple piece of sensory feedback that reinforces the correct technique.
Making home practice work
The most important principle for home-based pre-speech practice is consistency over intensity. Short, daily sessions of 5-10 minutes embedded into existing routines – bath time, snack time, or a quiet moment after school – are far more effective than long, infrequent sessions that can feel like a chore. Keeping activities fun, engaging, interactive, and game-like leads to optimal progress. Always follow the therapist’s guidance on which exercises are appropriate for your child’s current stage, and bring observations about what is working (and what is not) to every follow-up appointment.
Parent training – where caregivers learn strategies to support speech development – is itself a recognised component of effective intervention for children with intellectual disabilities and speech delays. You are not just practising exercises; you are building your child’s communication future, one small activity at a time.
What do you think? Which of these pre-speech exercise categories – blowing, sucking, oral motor, or breathing – do you think would be easiest to weave into a child’s daily routine at home, and why? If you work with or care for a child who has an intellectual disability, what has been your experience with motivating them to stay consistent with these kinds of activities?
References
- https://www.asha.org/policy/pp2004-00191/
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